Being Obedient...

I woke up this morning feeling like I had a hangover, but the sad thing was I wasnt out "partying" in trying to drown my sorrows. I laid on my bed and asked God to give me strength to overcome some habits..
The divorce
The drinking
The Loneliness..

Can these be
bad Habits"??

Or are they just the consequences of my habits that I let go too far?

I want Him to be the Only One in my life right now and then maybe I can see things clearer...